It's no secret that there are many failed parents in our country today, and as a result of the failed parenting we are now seeing failed lives. By my definition, a good parent is somebody who both provides for the child's immediate and future needs, which means promoting that the child works hard to get ahead in life, encouraging creativity, not sheltering them, and helping them find something they are curious and passionate about in order to give them a general direction of where they want to take their lives. We need good parents in order to have kids thrive and become well rounded adults, and we need well rounded and creative adults who know how to learn to compete in the global market. However, as we see more and more teen parents, and parents who are more centered around their own lives rather than their child's we are seeing increases in gang violence, drug use, growing poverty, depression, and teen pregnancy; it's a deadly and vicious cycle has crippled entire neighborhoods. Better parenting and a good education can help significantly decrease the amount of people who get in gangs or become druggies, and increase the amount of curious and passionate people who know how to learn. There are few places in Washington where gang crime and depression are more pronounced than in Yakima, Washington. Seattle's rates are actually higher, but when you compare population sizes you'll notice that despite Yakima's smaller size, our crime rates still rival theirs. In Yakima, according to Poedit.org, there are 429 violent crimes, 8 murders, 49 forcible rapes, 133 robberies, and 239 aggravated assaults annually. Though these numbers are slightly less than Seattle's, it is still rather shocking because Yakima has a much smaller population. There are many beacons of hope to help solve these problems, but the one best suited for Yakima is the "Ready by Five" program. This program works as a sort of preschool for children in poverty, as well as enabling the parents of those children to use the same strategies the program does in order to help teach their kids. Therefore it helps both kids and their parents.
Now one might argue that with our unbalanced budget a new form of preschool is the last thing we need to be looking into. However, according to the New York Times ". . . a Nobel Prize-winning economist at the University of Chicago, has shown that investments in early childhood education pay for themselves. Indeed, he argues that they pay a return of 7 percent or more — better than many investments on Wall Street (NICHOLAS D. KRISTOF)". Although it would be spending more money, we are making more than we spend in the process. We need to be looking into something that instills curiosity and passion in children before they go to public schools that will not help them because as Friedman writes "School systems.. have.. from the dawn of the industrial age, [had] a main purpose: to produce employees for boxed positions in corporate org charts"(Friedman pg.314). There are not enough jobs of that kind anymore, therefor we need to look for new ways to educate and I believe Ready By Five is a fantastic start.
To put their mission in their own words "Ready by Five provides family literacy and early learning programs to build school and life success for East Yakima children and families. We work with children, from birth to age eight, and their parents through a variety of literacy, language, and educational programs, all designed to build essential skills for children, adults, and families" (ReadyByFive.org home page). Ready by Five instructors go into the homes of the families who signed up and teach their children in front of the parents. It educates both the parents and the children, which allows for the parent to duplicate most of what the program did. It works with the families in their homes which makes this program cheap because no facilities need to be created for the program. It also makes it a more personal experience which has proven to be a much more effective environment for learning and creating curiosity and passion than when you have 50 students for one instructor. It targets children who are already at risk due to poverty and live in homes that may have parents who need help learning effective strategies for parenting, which will help promote greater upward mobility for the poor in our global market. This program was founded by, and co-funded by, private investors, which helps it to avoid the typical accusation of something from the government being socialist.
The New York Times also argues against this program, claiming that it is time to stop looking for fabulous teachers and programs to replace what this country's children really need: good parents who understand how important education is. The author of the article How About Better Parents? states that "Fifteen-year-old students whose parents often read books with them during their first year of primary school show markedly higher scores in PISA 2009 than students whose parents read with them infrequently or not at all . . ."(Friedman, How about better parents?). Good parents don't just happen; there are critical skills that have to be learned. One of Ready By Five goals is to help people have the skills and tools that will help them be good parents, this is a precious opportunity for single parents. A single family is the kind of family I came from, and my mom simply didn't have the time to read books with us, although she always asked how our day in school went. To help parents who have a serious lack of time you need something beyond an ad or a teacher's conference. You need something they can take advantage of to have both them and their children learn in an active way, and Ready by Five does just that while the child is still at an impressionable age. While the Ready by Five program instructor is in the home, they show the child worthwhile things to do that prepare them for school life. These activities can then be easily duplicated by the parent, and since the parent is encouraged to be there at the time it shows them ways to be a good parent. This creates a solid foundation in academics before the child enters our much needed to be reformed schools and gives the parents tools to help their child stay ahead in our globally aggressively competitive job market. With Ready by Five specifically trying to reach out to children who are on or below the poverty level, it gives children in poverty a chance to catch up to many of the kids who are more well off than they are.
Lastly if we really intend on competing in the global market, if want our society to thrive, to one day grow into a reality that is the American dream, if our passion is to one day have as many people get into as many good careers as possible then we have to try as hard as we can to teach children in the best ways we can.
WORK CITED
1. Various public records collected by poedit.org. Wellcome to Yakima Washington. 2013. 2/1/2012 <
www.poedit.org/state/washingto…>.
2. NICHOLAS D. KRISTOF. Occupy the classroom. October 19, 2011 . 1/26/2013 <
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3. Ready by Five. Promoting success in our school, life and community. 2012. 1/26/2013 <
www.readybyfive.org/>.
4. Thomas L. Friedman. How About Better Parents?. November 19, 2011 . 1/26/2013 <
www.nytimes.com/2011/11/20/opi…>.
5. "The Right Stuff." The World Is Flat: The Globalized World in the Twenty-first Century. Trans. Thomas L. Friedman. London: Penguin, 2006. 314. Print.